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Criticism is bound to happen to you. But you must know that People don’t have to like you and you don’t have to care. You also can’t stop people from criticizing you, you just have to learn to deal with criticism.

deal with criticism

But what of those times that you have to care what others think of you.

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 Everyone can’t be wrong at the same time, right? No matter who you are and what you do, people will question your morals, your motives and even who you are.

That’s criticism, people will criticize what they don’t like about you and what you’re doing. And you don’t have to listen right?

 Right and wrong. Sometimes we have to listen because despite our beliefs we might be doing the right thing in a way that affects people negatively. The thing is we won’t know who to listen too.

Criticism makes us angry, makes us believe that we need to defend ourselves. Defending yourself when dealing with critic often comes out the wrong way.

deal with criticism

So before you do anything, you have to know how to deal with criticism, how to deal with haters, the trolls, the people that feel threatened that you’re making progress.  You need to master the art and deal with critics like a boss.

On your journey to being a girl boss and building your empire, you face a lot of criticism and here is how to deal with it.

How to deal with criticism

1.      Understand why you’re doing what you’re doing:

If you know what you’re doing is right, know what you stand for, and believe in yourself and what the future holds, then all you have to do is to keep your stand, whatever they think doesn’t matter, when doing something great always remind yourself why you’re doing it, every day until it becomes automatic. Sometimes when people question our beliefs we tend to start doubting ourselves because we forget our why. Know your why and stand by it.

Read: How to find your passion & purpose in life

2.      Your worst critic is your inner critic:

Before people start to criticize you and notice that you’re doing something great, there’s always that little fear gnawing at your insides, preventing you from doing what you want to do, criticizing you. Until you learn to silence your inner critic, by strengthening your subconscious, then you can’t really deal with other people. The way to do that is by strengthening your subconscious, feeding it affirmations and repeating step number.

Read: How to Silence your inner Critic

3.      Expect criticism:

 Before doing something great you need to have it at the back of your mind that people will come at you. No great person became great without going through critics, when you’re prepared for it, it’ll be easier to ignore it or deal with it. Take it as a rite of passage. it’s something that will strengthen you, when you answer every why question about your journey because to yourself, it’ll be easier to tell your why to others and it actually makes your belief of it stronger.

4.      Are they right?

deal with criticism

 Ask yourself, when there’s a lot of people criticizing you, especially when it includes people you trust, take a step back, still keeping your why in mind and look at yourself objectively.

It maybe your time to question your why. If there’s truth to what they are saying, go back to where it started and fix it, then go on with your plan. It will strengthen you and make you a better person.

5.      Understand their why?

deal with criticism

Sometimes you need to put yourself in their shoes, see why they are doing it. Some people have mental disorder and you can’t argue with that kind of person, put yourself in their shoes and understand where they are coming from. When you do you will know best how to deal with them. Whether it’s to redefine your message to them, perhaps they will understand or ignore them all together

6.      Are they qualified to criticize you?

deal with criticism

 Some people will criticize you because they don’t understand what you’re doing. Or they feel like they know it better than you do. They don’t see what you see, and until they can or are qualified in your field, don’t accept criticism from them.

7.      Respond on your terms:

deal with criticism

When someone criticizes you, you have three options.

  • To respond which will most likely sound like a defense and will make you angry
  • take some time to process what it is and respond
  • Or ignore all together.

The best options are 2 or three. There are people you will have to respond to, people who when you understand their why and redefine your message will understand and support you. Then there are those that you will have to ignore, people who don’t know what they are talking about or people that are just haters. Depending on the conditions, take some time think through it and act accordingly.

deal with criticism

There is nothing wrong with you, criticism is a rite of passage you have to go through if you deal with it the right way, then you move forward, if you don’t, people will push you back and bully you until you forget your why and go back to square one.

But that’s not an option for you because I know you are strong and will pass the test and be the best girl boss you can be.

If you’ve dealt with criticism before and you have more helpful tips share them in the comments below. And make sure you share this article with all your girl boss friends.

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Ilham U.

Hey there!
My name is Ilham but you can call me Illey. I am the 18 year old blogger behind finding beautiful.

Finding beautiful is a platform where I write about beauty/health, Skincare, Selfcare, personal development and motivation. All things I love and care about.
They are parts of my life which when I payed attention to and practiced, helped me find me. the beautiful me. If you stick around, that's what I want to do, help you find your beautiful. For any girl, out there, young or old. To be the boss lady you wanna be, to unleash those dreams and achieve all those goals.

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